Brentwood Methodist Church
We really wanted to like this church but we never felt welcomed. We move to Brentwood 10 months ago and were were looking for a church that had many opportunities to socialize and get to know people. This church is very large and we were excited by everything it offered. On the plus side, the music is fabulous and the church is beautiful. We especially enjoyed the more casual services on Sat evening and Sun at 9:50 am. On the negative side, it was the most unfriendly congregation we experienced during our search for a church. Other than the usher who handed us the chuch bulletin each week, not one member of the congregation ever said a word to us during the 4 months we attended. The crowd is so big,that when the service is over, people exit quickly to make space for the next service's attendees. This unfortunately offers no opportunity for interaction. After attending a couple of services, we stopped by the welcome desk and the woman did ask "can I help you?" We explained we were new and she said "welcome" and then went back to chatting with her friends. We were quite surprised by this, but perservered and ask if they had a welcome packet? She looked like she was a bit annoyed by our interuption but a gentleman standing nearby went to the back and got us a packet. Again, other than to say "here you go" we didn't get a "welcome" from him either. We really wanted to like this church but after 4 months of feeling invisible, we concluded it was not the right church for us. Overall, I'd say this is a good choice if you already have a social network, but not so good if you are looking to develop one.
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Church is very friendly, building is beautiful and music is wonderful. Senior pastors sermons are passionate and caring, speaks of Jesus love and his grace. Female associate ministers sermons seem too liberal for this UMC congregation. Overall if you like a traditional worship service as I do, you will be very happy and blessed.
I am responding to your email with a heavy heart. I'm a volunteer member who works with the Andrew Ministers who help welcome newcomers, so I am speaking only as a member leader, not an official of the church. Your experience was not the kind we try to provide. We have a mission to welcome you, share our love of the church and God's grace, and give information to help you find small groups with whom to relate. When you join our church, we assign you an Andrew minister to call you to ask if you need help finding your special group, because we know how easy it is for large crowd to cover individual needs. Unfortunately, not all volunteers have the same gift of "friendly and helpful" that we would like to present. I would hope that your experience was a one time oversight; and I would like to have a chance to change your impression of us personally. We hope that we will continue to grow to reach as many people as possible, so the crowds will stay; but I would certainly like to show you a better "custome service" and pass the peace of Christ in a better way. I you would like to contact me, let this site know as they have my email address. Thank you for alerting us to this problem.
Lamcgill
Thank you for your comments. I am pleased to say we have found a church where we feel welcome and connected and although I appreciate your offer, I won't be in contact. I do wish you and your church the very best.
will you tell us what made your new church different...? what could Brentwood learn from your new church? maybe by sharing the name, the Brentwood folks could pay a visit and learn a thing or two...?